Monday, May 21, 2012

Euro 2012 - at a high price for the animals of Poland and Ukraine


In Ukraine more than 60 000 dogs and cats have been killed because to "clean" the streets for EURO 2012. Please SHARE so everybody can see what sort of a world we live in today!

In Ukraine the President signed a contract. It stated that the police should hunt down homeless dogs and burn them alive in a special oven that they made specially for burning homeless dogs and cats. This is inhumane! 

This is Poland and Ukraine. Think about this when you sit down to "enjoy" the game. 

Sign the petition:

"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated" 
-Gandhi-

Monday, May 07, 2012

Humanity -

The Dalai Lama when asked what surprised him most about humanity replied:

"Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present. The result being that he does not live in the present or the future. He lives as if he is never going to die and then dies having never really lived."


Friday, April 27, 2012

Shatila Refugee Camp

These words were penned in early summer 2011 following a visit to Shatila refugee camp in south Beirut, Lebanon. - To all the refugees of Occupied Palestine ....


Isn't it strange?
Isn’t it strange how something illegitimate gains legitimacy over time?
Isn’t it strange how a forced exodus of nearly a million people is forgotten?
Isn’t it strange how religion is a barrier to returning home?
Isn’t it strange how a pilgrim will only see what they want to see?
Isn’t it strange how a country’s name dwindles almost into distant memory in history?
Isn’t it strange how a massacre is not annually remembered by a minute’s silence?
Isn’t it strange how some refugee crises obtain almost a cult following and we are all asked to pledge some funds?

Think about how it is or is not strange. Then think of this:
 Israel is an internationally recognised State, with functioning State institutions not so different to those you find in the West.

750,000 people lost their homes, their land and their country in 1948

A Jew from anywhere in the world can go to Israel and settle. A Muslim or a Christian Palestinian cannot.

A Christian pilgrim on a sanitised tour of the “Holy Land” (I don’t find anything “holy” about an Apartheid Wall but maybe that is just me) photographs the Church of the Holy Sepulchre and the Jewish Wailing Wall but does not visit Gaza to share worship with Palestinian Christians – come on all you Christians out there who have done the “Holy Land” tour – tell me how many of those Arabs did you chance upon to meet on your travels?

“Where is Palestine?” he asked with a concentrated look of confusion. “Do you not mean Pakistan?”

9/11 – I don’t need to say more, we all know. How about 9/16?

“More aid to Africa” is the demand of celebrities keen to increase their popularity and fame (“Africa” – that continent of 47 countries, not all of which are destitute but it always sounds good to say you are helping “Africa”). What of aid though to the third generation of forgotten people?

Last Week:
 Last week I visited Shatila refugee camp in south Beirut. Home to maybe 12,000 – although there are no official figures as Lebanon has not held a census since 1932 due to the sensitive religious demographics. Understandably so in a nation that has seen enough bloodshed in its recent history.
If you have read anything about the Palestinian crisis then you may have heard of “Sabra and Shatila” or more likely you may not have. Why would you have? Lets face it; just another crisis somewhere in the “Middle East” and as the popular media tells us daily Arabs and particularly those Muslims are big on war, killing and violence – aren’t they? That is after all what Sky News and CNN keep telling us. Has anyone told you though about Sabra and Shatila?

Here’s a little bit of history:
In 1948 British Mandate Palestine came to an end and the State of Israel was created: “a land without people for a people without land” was the popular and much cited myth. But wait, that land was not without people. It was full of people. People who could trace their ancestors back eons of time but those people were Arabs and Arabs were no longer welcome in their own home. “Al nakba”  - “the catastrophe” – May 14th 1948 – a date etched in the mind of every Palestinian. A date that a Palestinian child today will know.  It didn’t end there though, worse was to come when Israel later snatched the West Bank and Gaza – land it still illegally occupies to this day. Yes, it is illegal under international law – did you know that? But where is international law as more and more illegal settlements spring up? Yes, of course it is condemned but what does that mean? No-one has stopped Israel. I detract however from what I want to say.
One of the consequences of al nakba was the creation of refugee camps springing up around the region. Sabra and Shatila are two of the most well known.

Why?
Well in 1982 Lebanon was in the grip of Civil war and our dear old friend Israel was embroiled in that. On the evening of September 14-15th Ariel Sharon – I am sure you have heard of him – “terrorist” is one of my more polite words to describe him, sent Israeli troops (the IDF – Israeli Defense Force – one of the most brutal military regimes anywhere) into west Beirut and surrounded Sabra and Shatila refugee camps. Christian militias entered the camps, supported by their Israeli allies who guarded the exits to the camps and over the next two days massacred Palestinian refugees.

Well known journalist Robert Fisk writes upon entering the camp hours after the massacres:
"Down a laneway to our right, no more than 50 yards from the entrance, there lay a pile of corpses. There were more than a dozen of them, young men whose arms and legs had been wrapped around each other in the agony of death. All had been shot point-blank range through the cheek, the bullet tearing away a line of flesh up to the ear and entering the brain. Some had vivid crimson or black scars down the left side of their throats. One had been castrated, his trousers torn open and a settlement of flies throbbing over his torn intestines."

He continues with:

"On the other side of the main road, up a track through the debris, we found the bodies of five women and several children. The women were middle-aged and their corpses lay draped over a pile of rubble. One lay on her back, her dress torn open and the head of a little girl emerging from behind her. The girl had short dark curly hair, her eyes were staring at us and there was a frown on her face. She was dead."

Finding it unpleasant, how about this?

"Another child lay on the roadway like a discarded doll, her white dress stained with mud and dust. She could have been no more than three years old. The back of her head had been blown away by a bullet fired into her brain. One of the women also held a tiny baby to her body. The bullet that had passed into her breast had killed the baby too. Someone had slit open the woman's stomach, cutting sideways and then upwards, perhaps trying to kill her unborn child. Her eyes were wide open, her dark face frozen in horror."


Why do we choose not to remember?
That was 1982, approximately 3,000 Palestinians died. “Died” though is too clean and final a word. More specifically young men and boys were tortured, women and girls were raped, infants were shot in the head –that kind of gets to the truth of it a bit more.

I wonder though where the one minute’s silence and the lit candles are each September for those victims? Can anyone explain why we fly a flag at half mast and ask people to pause for a minute to remember and reflect every September 11th now but not every September 16th?

Who is to blame?
Lebanon continues to balance its religious demographics carefully, sectarianism has been rife and the Lebanese are keen to display a united front to the world now. Unfortunately this has meant that the Palestinians in Sabra and Shatila are further ignored. Most are Sunni Muslims, if they were granted full citizenship and employment rights the demographics of Lebanon would alter. On the other side the PLO leadership in Lebanon back in the early years refused full citizenship rights as that would effectively meaning signing away forever the dream of a return to Palestine. I can see their point. However, when I see the plight of the residents of Shatila I do wonder. Losing your country is bad enough but to continue to live in squalor from one generation to the next is somehow worse.
The camps were set up by the United Nations Relief and Works Agency (UNRWA) for the refugees following the 1948 forced exodus however, UNRWA struggles for funding. It is not that fashionable for governments and the great celebrity bandwagon to keep giving out cash to subsidize a seemingly unsolvable problem – and of course it is even more unfashionable to help Palestinians, that somehow makes you anti-Semitic (yeah, go figure it out that is apparently what you are if you open your mouth in criticism of Israel). Yet, people should and have to know.

Feelings:
I walked the alleyways of Shatila, I saw the one clinic that serves the population. I spoke with the articulate young lady who lived in a 2 roomed “apartment” with six others. I saw the “playground” that had been constructed with twisted pieces of metal so the children had somewhere to play. I saw the looks of despondency and bitterness that were on the face of a seven year old boy. I saw the bombed out buildings that continued to crumble. I saw the attempts to build on the rubble. And what I saw most of all and what got to me above all else was the school. "Ramallah School" – established by some Swedish aid agency. A school where children in the camp go to be educated. To be educated until they are around 10 years old and then that stops. Yes, you see if you are a Palestinian in Shatila you leave school and if you are a boy you help your father sell vegetables or perhaps beg on the street or wash windscreens of cars. If you are a girl you go home and help your mother cook with whatever food you can eek out. Forget university. What use is that when you have almost no employment rights in Lebanon? You will spend your teenage years in the camp then you will probably marry and try to add some small rubble built annex onto the family “home” and so the cycle beings again. Where is this to end?
Lebanon is not some third world country yet the extremes I saw in one week were almost unbearable. The day before I went to Shatila I had wandered the streets of downtown Beirut. I could have been in Paris or Dubai. Money and more money oozed from every shop, café and bar. Lebanon is home to many good universities yet a child born in Shatila has about a zero chance of ever finishing school let alone getting to university.

Who do we blame?
The Lebanese government for their refusal to grant full citizenship rights? The PLO who originally refused full citizenship as it is meant the end to any possible return to Palestine? The Israelis for their racist policy of “right of return” being applicable to a Jew from any part of the globe but not to a Palestinian? The UN for their failure to guarantee the rights of the Palestinians? The Allied powers for their inability to prevent al nakba and to secure a just settlement?

I truly do not know. I despise and hate Israel more than I can put into words but I also feel anger towards the international community for not addressing this problem properly because it is not just going to quietly disappear.

As I walk the dark and muddy alleys of Shatila I feel my emotions verge on extremes; I feel anger, I feel hate and in the end I just feel like sitting down and letting my tears fall unashamedly in the midst of it all. Perhaps because I am a teacher I was most struck by the message of hope, yet also bitter irony, on the school wall: “Education is our only way to be free and responsible”. This is true but that can only be the case when the barriers to education are lifted, when people are free. We have to hope and pray that one day this wrong will be righted and another generation of Palestinians will not grow up in this mass of twisted rubble. 

I also would like to think that all human life should carry the same value and when we remember the fallen of the two World Wars every November and the victims of 9/11 every September we would also pause and remember the bludgeoned, raped and massacred innocents of Sabra and Shatila.

If you ever visit Lebanon take a morning out of your shopping and tourist sites schedule and take a taxi to south Beirut, Shatila is easy to find. Ask the taxi to drop you off at the Kuwaiti roundabout..it wont take much effort to see where the camp begins..

(UNRWA estimates there are 4.8 million registered Palestinian refugees in Jordan, Lebanon, Syria and the Occupied Palestinian Territories)

Kat
June 22nd 2011 


Monday, April 23, 2012

Searching ....

"The inspiration you seek is already within you. 
Be silent and listen" -Rumi


Sometimes in this life things seem impossible and we give up, we lose sense of purpose, of direction and of love. 
We find we lack faith in those who have faith in us and we see only the obstacle and not the possibility. 
Never give up on the dream of your heart ....
You know this. 

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم - today's observation

"Sufi mystics say the secret of al Quran is in Surah al Fatiha
And the secret in al Fatiha lies in بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم  (bismi-llahi r-rahman r-rahim)
And the quintessence of bismi-llahi is in the letter ب 'ba'
And there is a dot beneath that letter 
The dot beneath the letter embodies the entire universe
ب"


Monday, April 09, 2012

Destination Brazil

"He who does not travel does not know the value of men" - North African proverb

Hello bloggers
Ma'salaama Arabia wa marhaba min Brazil
Currently I am a long way from Arabia. Crossed the seas and oceans to South America and landed on terra firma in Brazil.
Long time since done much blogging so intend to get back to it asap, inshallah, as have a lot of posts sitting waiting to be edited and updated.
Will also attach some photos here later once I manage to purchase a new USB cable for my camera.
Salaams until later.
Khaleejikat
x

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Cutie Cakes & Photo Reels

Hello bloggers
Not had much time to blog this past few days had rather a lot going on. When I have had the odd moment been busy as photographer extraordinaire on my sister Fee Fee's blog - do check it out. She is a complete wiz in the kitchen with baking and has been described as a cross between a 1950s housewife and Nigella (the perfect combination I would imagine).

 Lighter than air Pavlova - topped with fresh strawberries, raspberries & blueberries. A delight that would not be out of a place at any Diamond Jubilee Celebrations garden parties being staged this summer.
The 8 stages Lemon Cake - words fail me; both texture and taste were divine 

Here is the link: http://feefeecupcakes.blogspot.com/


I don't know why I talk of going on a diet when I keep eating things like this - caramel brownies - (oh it was sooooooo good ;-) )
xx

Friday, February 24, 2012

Oman - Animal fostering and adoption

Oman Animal Adoption and Fostering Group. A group run entirely by volunteers who rescue and try and re-home dogs and cats in Oman.
Please keep these animals in mind when looking for a pet. 
The centre can be contacted on: (00968) 95504302 - you can volunteer, donate or make an enquiry.



"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated"
-Gandhi 

(Click on the images to enlarge them)

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

What's in a name? That which we call a rose. By any other word would smell as sweet"

- as summed up by the literary genius of Shakespeare.

What is in a name though I ask myself today? Or rather I ask myself what connotations does a name but draw? I hitherto begin this short musing.

Some weeks ago I chose to "adjust" my name on Facebook. Why? I changed it for one reason and one reason only. I had been writing on several pages voicing my opposition to what I call Nationalistic Separatism - in other words, the case for Scotland to break away from the rest of the UK -  something I am absolutely against. Neither my first name or family name are particularly common - and definitely not when put together and given some of the hostility and extremism being spouted by Separatists in Scotland I felt I was uncomfortable with my full name being on show on a social networking site.

The name I chose reflects the name of this blog. It is not a "name" as such. I kept my first name on Facebook but used this blog name as my "family name". Why did I choose this particular name? "Khaleejikat" probably means absolutely nothing to anyone outside of the Arab world. And to those who do speak Arabic the first part simply reads "khaleeji" - a word used to describe a person of Arab Gulf origin - i.e one from the Arabian peninsula. Although I am not from there I have lived in 2 countries there and have an affinity with that part of the world for more than one reason, something I know I will always have.

Where then the second part of the word - "Kat"? Well that is simply an abbreviation of my first name. It was first used by a couple of friends of mine at university and it sort of grew from there. Having said that my family have never called me that and neither have many other friends, those that started it back then though still use it and I still sign off emails etc with it. It is only one of 2 shortened versions of my first name I will accept being called and I think I also particularly liked this one as if I was to compare my personality and characteristics to any animal it would be a cat. I love cats and always have done, them like me like to observe new situations and characters from a distance and decide if trust and loyalty will be offered or if I will give a withering look, hiss and walk away ;-)

I liked the sound of putting the "khaleeji" and the "kat" together and creating a whole new word: Khaleejikat. I had been thinking of a name for my blog for a while and this just struck me as having a sound to it I particularly liked. I suppose it could be read as "Kat of the Khaleej" - although an Arab linguist would probably tell me that was not quite grammatically correct. Whether linguistically correct or  otherwise it is the name I chose and I like it.

Upon feeling there was the potential for the breach of privacy on Facebook I decided to remove my family name from my profile. I had to replace it with something else though. Therefore I mused why not just use the name I blog with? I like the sound of it and the majority of my friends on Facebook would get why I used that name. Or so I thought.

Several days ago I was confronted by my slightly irate mother who announced: "I have received a text from X who says you have changed your name to some Arab name, what is this? At first I didn't even know what to say as I didn't even understand what she was on about. She repeated the text to me again. I responded by stating if I had changed my name it was the first I was aware of it and left it like that. Throughout the day though I sensed something was amiss and said later that if I was to change my name I would not even know how to actually go about it and secondly, where exactly was this bizarre idea originating from? No answer.

By the next day it had dawned on me; this text message was referring to the name I used on Facebook - "Khaleejikat" - it could not be in reference to anything else as there simply was nowhere else I would appear with a different name. I went and talked to my mother and explained this was my only possible understanding of where this had come from. I was not entirely convinced she believed me. However, I thought that was the end of it.

Oh no, it was not to be. Today the text message frenzy had apparently started up again. This time I will not repeat what was written as it was just downright rude. Once again I patiently explained where I believed this idea was originating from. Does she believe me? I don't know. Is she bothered by it? I don't actually think so. I think she is beginning to realise how ridiculous and stupid this person is being too.

Lets just step back a bit here. Last year I told my family, after a prolonged period of time, that I was Muslim. How did they react? Well I would not exactly say they were very thrilled to know I had done this but little more was said about it. As I made no major outward changes, (most visible would have been to wear hijab but that is for another blogpost I think - although I will say here, I do believe it is required although I do not wear it - at least when in the UK) other than stating I would not be drinking alcohol there seemed to be no problem. A few days later though I realised I had probably been a bit naive to think that it was no big deal. A flurry of text messages had been pouring in from the aforementioned person X - not to me though, to my mother. Like so many ignorant people it is easier to make big statements from behind small keyboards rather than facing someone directly. I was later to discover I had apparently become a "fanatic", an "extremist" and was apparently not welcome any longer in X's house, at least until I had "stopped this nonsense".

I was also asked by some Muslims and also by several non-Muslims if I would change my name. Whilst I do know of several converts who have either formally changed their first name or taken an additional "Muslim" name I am not aware this is required - at least there is nothing in the Quran to suggest this and also the first Muslims in the time of Muhammad (pbuh) did not change their names, therefore I have never seen any obligation to do so. I should point out here -  I am talking about the first name. Never have I heard of anyone changing their family name as a result of becoming Muslim - just as many friends of mine who are born Muslim have never changed their family name to their husband's upon marriage as there is no requirement to do so and women are people in their own right. Interesting that the West often likes to talk of Muslim women as oppressed when until very recently a woman in the West upon marriage had no choice but to take her husband's name whilst Muslim have never been obliged to give up their family name.

As I have never had any intention of changing my first name why on earth would I choose to randomly change my family name ?! Maybe I sound like I am ranting here but I was really outraged by this "accusation" for several reasons. I found it pathetic that a seemingly well educated person would take such an ignorant and bigoted view of first, my choosing to become Muslim and secondly, to jump to a wild conclusion based on a name used on Facebook - considering loads of people write on Facebook under a pseudonym. Additionally and laughably this person is not even on my Facebook any longer due to me deleting them some time ago due to Islamophobic comments on my page that were direct attacks not only on me but on my faith - therefore to have made this "discovery" they must have been trawling through Facebook to actually try and find me! What perhaps annoyed me the most was the downright stupidity, immaturity and irresponsible behaviour of this person. Over the past year my mother had a medical issue that was worrying us all, inshallah and alhumdillallah, she has been told the matter is now resolved and closed. Consider though that during that time I first announced I was Muslim, which I knew did cause some shock - although I worked hard to assure my parents I was me and not about to become fanatical in any way and then someone who could have either said nothing (as it was not their place to say anything anyway) or raised their "concerns" with me and not with anyone else chose instead to chip away at my mother and place doubt where I had worked to create assurance. Incidentally X is very closely related to my mother yet rather than be there for her and ease worry X instead chose to add to her own concerns by spouting what can only be termed as complete bullshit. The behaviour of X also was a rude awakening to me in the sense that one can be very well educated in a multicultural and academically select university, have been employed in a senior position and have travelled the world but mouth the prejudices you may expect of an idiot who has never left the village.

What's in a name? Shakespeare's love struck Juliet bemoaned - and I ponder this myself. A name can hold a thousand years of tribe or clan identity, meaning and pride. It can relate to an ethnicity, nationality or a religion for anyone to "change" their name it is a decision made with much thought and consideration and not due to following some "mad *******" (as I have been accused).

Think before you speak (or in this case write) your words can create much fitna (chaos) and ponder this: "prejudice is ignorance" said a very wise man.

a 'salaam aleykum

Kat